Romantic Compatibility of Instinctual Matches

[Stellafera]

So/Sp: So/Sp > Sp/So
Sp/So: Sp/So > So/Sp

As the ranking shows, apart from the SX blindspot and same stacking matches, the match that is the most beneficial for you is not on an "equal" footing with you – you "get more" out of that match than the other person.

all y'all Sx types so obsessed with compatibility and attraction and shit and the Sx-lasts are winning without even trying

you can't lose if you don't play

[Olimpia]

all y'all Sx types so obsessed with compatibility and attraction and shit and the Sx-lasts are winning without even trying

you can't lose if you don't play

Haha!

Well, So/Sp and Sp/So may have it easier once they find a fellow SX blindspot person, but in general they are the ones who have the most difficulties with romance, being SX blindspot. So... I guess it is fair their ideal match is equal while they are the ones who probably are the worst at SX from all stackings.

[Tonatiuh]

all y'all Sx types so obsessed with compatibility and attraction and shit and the Sx-lasts are winning without even trying

you can't lose if you don't play

That's exactly right, but because of my general detachment and the construction of ideal worlds and visions of my future I tend to neglect what's happening around me in a strictly more social context. In this way I might feel like I'm playin but I really aint. Usually I don't understand that someone likes me or even that I like them until some series of events acts as a catalyst for those branches of thoughts to occur. Incluing but not limited to hitting me in the head with a comically enormous hammer with the text "I like you". This has improved with age though.

[maniac]

all y'all Sx types so obsessed with compatibility and attraction and shit and the Sx-lasts are winning without even trying

I think this whole obsession with finding compatability is some sort of soc-based romanticized fairy tale view of how a relationship should work. That they help eachother toward health and the ultimate perfect compatability for it is a very soc idea.

Sx firsts dont care about how compatible they are with a person, they only care about the attraction/'chemistry' and put that above all, I put chemistry in '' because I think generally we mistake the attraction for chemistry, sx is an objectification afterall.

[Olimpia]

I think this whole obsession with finding compatability is some sort of soc-based romanticized fairy tale view of how a relationship should work. That they help eachother toward health and the ultimate perfect compatability for it is a very soc idea.

Sx firsts dont care about how compatible they are with a person, they only care about the attraction/'chemistry' and put that above all, I put chemistry in '' because I think generally we mistake the attraction for chemistry, sx is an objectification afterall.

And that is why many SX first people go through pretty horrible or at least heart-breaking relationship experiences.

I don't see anything wrong with trying to prevent that as best as possible.

SX first people who have had too many problems in romance become pretty unhealthy and jaded over time.

[Tonatiuh]

SX first people who have had too many problems in romance become pretty unhealthy and jaded over time.

Monstrous..

[Stellafera]

Sx firsts dont care about how compatible they are with a person, they only care about the attraction/'chemistry' and put that above all, I put chemistry in '' because I think generally we mistake the attraction for chemistry, sx is an objectification afterall.

This is some good insight, thank you. I assume it's somewhat comparable to the "Yes, I'd like 5 friend-people please, any people will do" behavior of So/Sp's where we care more about forming a social circle than necessarily who we form it with.