Quote Originally Posted by Topaz
I seem to go through cycles. For a while it seems everybody wants me and then suddenly everything dries up and nobody wants me. Everything becomes dark and grey. I might go into a funk for a few days. Then I'll get busy on my own projects and start exersizing and taking care of business and suddenly my phone will start ringing and everybody is inviting me places. It goes like that for a while and then suddenly it all crashes again. It was actually an ESFP that pointed out to me that this was a cycle. He had the same thing happening to him. I wonder if its universal?
Sadly.. this is true. I'm currently in the "dark & grey" part, and i'm just rotting at home getting lonely.

Quote Originally Posted by Topaz
Anyway, I learned the hard way that with some ISTPs its best not to go to them when you are in a sad or crummy mood. Forget about it. They cant help you get out of it but will probably get drug down into your mood. Its best to work it out yourself or find another ENFP or even an ESFP who can sympathize and cheer you up. Perhaps some of you other ENFPs have had a different experience or a different take on this. What say you?
Eh. I have to agree with this, dunno about the other ENFps - ISTps. I try not to go to a ISTp when I'm not in a good mood. They get affected by it.