I was wondering if anyone feels this way about their illusionary partner. I have known a couple of ILEs in the past but have only recently become close to one. He feels very important to me. He is a lot younger than me, same age roughly as my youngest LSI sibling. However he’s mature for his age. I also think the guy/gal dynamic is nice. I have met his gf and friends and we go to the same music event together. It’s easy to talk to a background of lovely music.
We can have great discussions and share similar interests but what I like most is that we can comfortably talk about being sad or feeling a bit lost and I feel like we know what each other means. It makes me feel like someone understands, I’m not alone and I have someone to share this part of me with. Also I think that maybe we can offer each other some suggestions for how to deal with these thoughts or talk romantically about life to cheer each other up. Maybe it’s just that we really get on too and it’s not only type-related.
I know duals may have healing qualities but for this post I’m more interested in illusionary or maybe other types. Or how other types have healing qualities that are different to those of duals..I think maybe mirrors can have this effect too? Maybe ESE for me too but in a slightly different way.