To add: it was interesting/amusing just how 'oblivious' this woman was to my natural IEI passive-ness that yes, has a huge tendency to turn most women off. It's not that the passiveness turned her on she was just oblivious/whatever about it and wanted to talk to me, so she just kept chasing me around the store until we had a conversation lol. Just sorta 'okay whatever' about it, and I know if I was straight, it would just kind of um unlock or something in me to be more dominant because well, I'm still a guy and she's still a woman as herzy said.