Seems like Fe vs. Fi valuing there.There, I run into a guy who seems pretty funny and is making rather bold statements about his opinions. I think he's joking, but it turns out he's serious. It totally escapes me how he can feel so certain about these things, but even more than that, I can't believe he's trying to make claims about how people should live their lives. I can't help it, I have to play devil's advocate. When I try to claim that there is no code for right and wrong here, that there are no concrete rules, he tells me that you can't get anywhere in life unless you're willing to make those judgments. He claims that there ARE rules and there ARE patterns here, and that I must be a bad person if I can't sense them for myself. This gets my back up. I'm not a bad person. I empathize and care about people. I just don't do it on the same level as he does. Plus, his rules aren't concrete. They aren't unbreakable. Most of all, he's not even using this rationalizing system to do anything productive. He's just bitching about people and being a complete dick. Some of the other people with him see nothing wrong with that, but in my opinion, it's him that is the bad person. What an asshole.
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