I could easily be misguided but something about the shape of her eyes and their expression reminds me of my EII friend that VIs exactly like an EII.
It's almost like I can see my friend doing the expression she's doing in the second pic.
but this: "She's fascinated by the Godfather movies" - not EII
And this: "Every time I suggest something, she's just like "eh". Finds it hard to get particularly focused or excited on any one venture" does not go well with eneagram 7. It's quite contradictory I would say. (omg, my
is raging today).
I haven't read it all but why not consider ESI for her?