Originally Posted by
Jadae
"I mean, she's always given off plenty of affection but knowing how little she knew about me/my inner world... made me question her....sincerity. It felt fake." -MM
Side-subject but I thought this was fun:
This is as easy way to detect NFs. Keirsey's books are kinda fluff but the whole NF-Authenticity thing is very true. You'll hear it time and time again in very different ways. It is a reoccuring theme. Kinda cool eh? ^_^ It seems that the Ne side and Ni side state it differently--or rather the Ni side states it and the Ne side acts on it lol.
Woah, woah, woah, slow down
slow down, this I gotta hear. Come again? There's an "NF-authencity thing" that is heard time and again? ooooh, which specific Keirsey book? The Ne side and the Ni side state IT differently....what is "it"?
The Ni side states it? and the Ne side acts on it? What is IT? Authencity or fakeness? My sister is a big ole' fake. OMG, let me tell you. She always (doesn't skip a beat) sends us Christmas cards and b-day gifts that many a times have absolutely no personal meaning attached. She gave me a
G.I. JANE dvd. What the fuck do I want a G.I. Jane DVD for? Obviously she's a re-gifter!! It was more insulting than anything.
I on the other hand haven't bought her shit in YEARS. I did write her a letter once and she had it on her fridge for like a year!!!! awwww, THAT was sweet. The fact that she left it there for so long....I consider THAT to be a REAL GIFT. Wait, she was probably too busy to REMOVE it. Damn it, nevermind. We are each other's gift damn it! Why ruin it with store bought junk. I'd rather give her a hug and letter.
You're an NF, how does Fe fit into any of this?
I should buy a few books
then come back to this site.