How to get through to an EII?

[Computer Loser]

I’ve seen that play out. If it’s done with any steel she gets angry and tells the person to fuck off. If it’s dispassionate she laughs as if it’s a joke and says “yeah...I know”, with an attitude like “I know I’m just a kid, but I’ll grow up one day.” I think any approach likely to get through to her would involve a long conversation.

I can tell that you care about her

Mentoring and having an older brother/sister figure growing up helps a lot, not sure if you're into something like that, but maybe you could start a dynamic like that. We tend to open up our hearts to those we look up to/have a good relationship with.