As I've said before, what we really need is not often something that we feel most comfortable with or desire - somewhat like people needing the patch but wanting a cigarette. I can see many flaws in my dual as I'm sure that she can see in me, and younger versions of us would not likely have gotten together. Of all my relationships, it hasn't been in the passionate top-half but she has been the best supporter of my well-being by far - as I seem to be for her. I don't think it bodes ill; life is a series of choices and compromises. I recommend using Socionics for understanding of one's relationships rather than for making personal relationship choices because people can coexist peaceably with all types - if there's enough mutual understanding and acceptance......

a.k.a. I/O