How do you feel about being stalked?
I ask because I'm thinking about "stalking" in relation to two ESI's I know, both Se subtype. Also an LSI. All Aggressors.
Examples:
The LSI would frequently tell me something about my house, but would immediately state that she knew that because she just happened to be in the neighbor and wasn't stalking me at all, no way, no how. Just something she happened to notice. And what about that thing?
The first ESI-Se was in the neighborhood because she has a lawn service in town and customers near me, and one day I noticed that one of my trash containers was missing and I discovered it across the street, being used by the ESI. I think she has a possessiveness about her.
She trimmed a flowering bush next to my kitchen window and I mailed her a check. Later, when I was talking with her, I asked her for her phone number and as I was entering it in my phone (while she watched) the iPhone connected her name and address and brought up a map of her house and she said "What is that shit? You'd better not be stalking me!" and then immediately calmed down and said sheepishly "Oh, you mailed me a check."
Yeah, I did, but I was also stalking her. Lol. She has a house in the same neighborhood as my male ESI-Se buddy.
The second ESI-Se is an artist and I recently bought some of her work. She FEDEX'ed it to me, and I asked her for her present address so I can send her a check. No response. I asked her four times and each time she replied but didn't give me her address. Finally I texted her this picture (
https://i.imgur.com/w8iPfn9.jpg) to get her attention, and then she sent the briefest of addresses.
I'm guessing that Aggressor stalkers do not like to be stalked themselves, and it's not just an SLE thing.