Couldnt find type 7 so i just made a new one
7w6
https://youtu.be/0nlJuwO0GDs
7w8
https://youtu.be/CmXWkMlKFkI
Couldnt find type 7 so i just made a new one
7w6
https://youtu.be/0nlJuwO0GDs
7w8
https://youtu.be/CmXWkMlKFkI
7w8 ESTP (also notice the static aggressor elements)
another one
old school rap > mumble rap
^oh yeh
(or 3?)
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Sexual 7
Killed the demons of my mind
Ever since you came around
We're a river, running wild
How could I have been so blind?
I just live a fast life
Forget about the past time
Numb out to escape my feels
And friendships only pass by
Show up, gone, like strobe lights
But with you, I feel something real
And I'd walk a million miles, just to see you smile
'Til the day I die
Oh, I need you by my side, we get high on life
'Til the day we die
High on life 'til the day we die
High on life 'til the day we die
High on life 'til the day we die
And I'd walk a million miles, just to see you smile
'Til the day I die
High on life 'til the day we die
Through my fingers, out of sight
How could I have let you go?
Cutting corners, turning stones
But I can only see your ghost
I just live a fast life
Forget about the past time
I numb out to escape my feels
And friendships only pass by
Show up, gone, like strobe lights
With you, I feel something real
And I'd walk a million miles, just to see you smile
'Til the day I die
Oh, I need you by my side, we get high on life
'Til the day we die
High on life 'til the day we die
Oh, I need you by my side, we get high on life
'Til the day we die
High on life 'til the day we die
And I'd walk a million miles, just to see you smile
'Til the day I die
Oh, I need you by my side, we get high on life
'Til the day we die
7w6
Everything that's shine ain't always gonna be gold
This video I really enjoy:
This one just seems like a young woman whose bmi is too low is pointing to her genitals over and over. I can't see her as necessarily 7w6 because I'm
too busy noticing the visual pelvis references.Ope. There's another one. Can't type. I'm busy. Another. Plus the whiney voice thing doesn't appeal to
me. It isn't her, it's a style she's doing, but one that always sounds obnoxious to me. And the dancing is a disappointment, esp after Dobrev. There's
no smooth swagger. No confident, vivacious coming alive I see in 7w6es.(Edit: halfway through it speeds up and she's actually dancing but leaves off
to just gesture at herself undressing again) She might just be super anxious, but her performance seems canned and
hesitant and stilted, to me. 'I'll tell someone they think they're hot but are not.. while I repeatedly point to my groin as evidence of my own thinking I
am hot, like no other human on earth has genitals.This will really be attractive that I reference the rare commodity of having waste and sex bits.
My motioning will make my video all the rage. More whine. More motioning.'
Last edited by nanashi; 11-29-2020 at 07:56 AM.
I stopped modeling when I realized I was underweight. I stopped exercising too much, and I waited to model until I got healthier. I comment on HOW
a body is depicted through choices people make and also on bodies for health reasons.
My neuron is fine. Your consideration is super sweet.
Not all people with a lot of fat are unhealthy. Having a low bmi is dangerous, and I get concerned for people because mine was too low without my
trying to make it low. And it was a very uncomfortable weight to be at.
I also bring it up in a way one wouldn't about obesity because (and this is widely known, though perhaps not to you) there's a severe problem with
eating disorders, pressure on elementary aged kids to be thin (even from their parents), and irresponsible fashion presentation of unhealthily thin
people to sell clothes.
The visuals she is selling and creating are impacted by her bmi. She is constructing ideas and images.
I don't consider anyone 'lesser'. Why do you consider people 'lesser'. My comments about her weight are genuinely about the responsibility fashion
and media have regarding eating disorders. But, I in no way anywhere imply she is LESSER than myself. You're the first person in this thread to stoop to that. And you made it about
my body making me lesser. Not about my actions being rude, alone. You're literally doing what you're trying to protect her from which you think I did: shaming someone about their
body.
Perhaps you are only used to concern that is expressed in one way.
Mine is still valid.
This thread is about 7s. And if I see a seemingly too petite kid poining over and over to her groin, I'm going to find it dubious and be disappointed and
say something. This is about definition, and 7 doesn't = skinny and 'look, I have genitals. Isn't it fabulous?'
7s can entertain better than that is my other point.
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Art is for human consumption.
What we put out into the world is going to have an effect.
Selling unhealthy ideas and images has consequences for our art consumers.
I'm not personally holding her hand and helping her with her weight, so I'm not approaching the topic in a one-on-one way. I'm talking about the art
itself and what she's put out into the world and how I feel about it as a definitive enneagram 7 visual....it's not a great depiction specifically because
it's mostly 'buy my genitals' with some music and dancing scattered in and because artists are responsible for seemingly low bmi visuals. I didn't
shame her for being skinny. Art becomes idealized. It matters
Last edited by nanashi; 11-29-2020 at 08:25 AM.
That's not how the word gatekeep works. I'm not preventing access to anything. I'm sharing a response, which... last time I checked... is allowed on the internet.
"gatekeep(Verb) To limit (sometimes manipulatively, rather than directly) how much role another party, often a spouse, has in some task; for example, to limit how much one's husband can raise one's children. gatekeep(Verb) To control or limit access to something."
No, Outlier. Read it again. I did not make a guess as to your motives. I DID discuss your actions. You literally called some people LESSER. It wasn't some unspoken thing I was throwing darts at in the dark.
People who know me always tell me I'm complex, but I don't see rudimentariness as some bad thing, so if I were rudimentary, c'est la vie. Again with you thinking someone is less.
You bet I'm vapid. Well, bad guess. Little...no, probably as tall as you are. Horrid....hm. I don't think anyone is horrid. I see actions as horrid. Mine, like those of all humans, vary.
Values I 'smear' all over the forum. Oh, like your values you're enforcing here tonight?
People in fashion aren't disgusting. Some actions in fashion are dysfunctional. That's a huge point. Responsibility is a joke? No, not to me. I've seen eight year old kids going on diets not for their health but to be thin. I've seen men and women with body dysmorphia.
The human mind IS deeply influenced by a great many factors, and it's not some weakness that it is so---it's just a fact of evolutionary biology.
It's not babyproofing if it's not directed at babies. It's directed at people of various ages who massive amounts of research show are deeply impacted by ideals, images, archetypes, etc
um, your liking other peoples' modes of expressing concerns or not doesn't invalidate the methods or the concern.
Last edited by nanashi; 01-25-2021 at 02:02 AM.
Outlier is just fatphobic @nanashi , and thinks your one little comment is going to contribute to obesity in women worldwide or something like that.
you don't know that because...it isn't true. lol. wtf. with whom is Outlier lumping me in? are all women a monolith in your mind?
there's nothing rigid about Ni and about constantly researching and about listening with openness to my many friends and acquaintances with who've had disordered eating.
It's...not the only thing I have to say. But I do recognize a weird and pathological attempt to diminish other people when I see it. Yeah...it's healthy of my brain I noticed you're employing it. Draw inept conclusions all you want about people being less than others. It doesn't make it true. But you're free to make the mistake. Fashion isn't entirely repulsive objectively. maybe you're personally uncomfortable with some aspects of it. I doubt you hate all elegant lines in cars and dislike your clothes matching, etc
No. it's not okay if an 8 year old wants to starve. It's not okay if the sum of messages we collective bathe kids' minds in are about disordered eating's 'merits,' and while some parents have responsibility for it, not all do. Parents aren't some all powerful, omnipresent force in peoples' lives, and they shouldn't be. that's how North Korea works, not healthy parenting.
Outlier, your going to have to stop urging acts of terrorism.
siiiiiiiiiigh. no. i specifically said I wasn't trying to be thin when I became too thin. but you didn't read that. you've confused me with the my acquaintances. but that you're trying to cause harm to people with disordered eating is reason enough to suspend your account. that's harassing them, Outlier.
sigh. dude, you can't delete your bad behavior when the responses of others to your bad behavior include direct quotes of it.
@aster That is sad for me to hear. You are one of the best looking people I’ve seen in my life. E-hugs
Well I don’t want to make you change for me. I’m a libertarian and to me you seem like a SJW. But I thought you should know your comments aren’t entirely harmless. Going around preaching about things is a turnoff for a lot of people and can send them reeling in the total opposite direction. I don’t agree with how you go about the issues you
seem to feel strongly about. Anyway, I agreed more in line with Outlier’s comments. We just have different values.
you literally do want me to change my actions for you.
You're clear about that.
But you're not being open with me about how.
I am in part libertarian, though I also incorporate other political views into my own.
If you mean Ni-creative = SJW because XIE change systems in response to needs, okay, but if you mean SJW as in 'destructively zealous, holier than
thou, or shaming' well, no. I actively work toward the opposites of those behaviors. And my attempts are all over this site.
You are seeming like you're shaming me and being dismissive with your SJW label of me. How is that not hypocritical?
This confronting me and then retreating without talking is not as effective as just telling me. I'm not a mindreader, aster, and why not tell me but just
talk around it? You've already violated any 'don't change for me' ideals you have by airing your valid struggles. What's so evil of you about being
human and finding something triggering? Then you abandon your willing listener and advocating for yourself at a moment it's unnecessary to.
This sounds more like avoiding rejection than it does healthy boundaries.
7w6