Are you a 1w9, 8w9, 5w4 or neither? You remind me of a few LSI-Se 1w9s and 5w4.
You're very similar to FG from personalitybase and sakinorva. He's an LSI-Se 1w9 and has very similar viewpoints to you about socionics.
You should try considering that type imo. Not saying that's your type but just consider it thanks.