I know the expected answer is Dual but I'm asking for input to help me emotionally digest this and my current situation as well as past. If you could choose only one who would you pick and why? I am not asking for theory alone but your real life experiences. Then of course there is always the risk that the respondent's typings might be wrong but it is a risk that must be taken if any progress can be achieved. Many thanks for all respectful responses in advance.