Pretending or coming off as pretending to live in a glorious fairy tale seems more 7ish (especially sx 7ish) than 3ish to me. If she's sx 3, I don't think acting as if life is a glorious fairy tale especially during those times is the feminine ideal or a desirable image to have. I think 3s especially sx 3s can be a bit more complex than that, you know? I see what you're getting at in the quotes though, I can see some 6ish things and you probably know more of her than I do.

Maybe she's really a 6 or her tritype had an influence in what you mentioned, @darya. Between those two, I'd guess 369. Oh and these people also think 369 (which are all connected) for her although sx 3 and they claim extroverted sx (water) subtypes are often typed as 6 whereas introverted sx (water subtype) people are often typed as 4. They seem less conventional though even if they are in enneagram monthly. I think I linked you their stuff before. They also use Jungian stuff that makes sense but I disagree with rough correlations like sx introverts being the Ni doms and soc introverts being the Ti doms (which is what I assume they believe).