Originally Posted by
inumbra
Are ppl attracted to these unnatural muscly men? I remember as a young teen being drawn to eating disorders because it was an ideal of femininity... (Though that's not all it was) How is this not the opposite?
I stopped eating, they buff themselves up... What is the difference? I guess as dumb eternal victim of the patriarchy I wanted to die, but how are they not lost in a false gender ideal?
I don't wanna undermine myself in that I was in an abusive household and this was how I found freedom, but still it was terribly gendered.