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    ESTP-ISTP relations....


    How do you feel ESTPs get along with us ISTPs...

    I feel ESTPs are very cool people, but can be suspiscious of the ISTP intentions...

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    vice-versa.. as well

    sometimes the istp may feel the person is being too materialistic and or laughing at them

    the estp may feel the istp is too selfish? not sure.
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    I can't say I've ever witnessed it, so my inputs worthless here.

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    I find the ESTP can be, at certain times, a little TOO full of energy, and a little too much of a womanizer (the men).

    Other than that, i've got no real qualms. They're loads of fun.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Binky
    Watch 3:10 To Yuma.
    As in Bale an SLI and Crowe an SLE? Yeah, I can flow with that.

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    Default SLE-SLI Extinguishment/Contrary relations (ESTp & ISTp)

    ESTp's, what are your experiences with and impressions of ISTp's, your "contrary" in intertype relations?


    (I posted something similar in the "Any Relations" area, but I'm looking for ESTp input in particular here, or others who have observed ESTp-ISTp relations irl....)

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    Unfortunately, I don't think there have been any active ESTps on the forum lately. But maybe people with personal experience in these type of relationship...like you said. Good luck!

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    I don't like ESTP's and i'm sure they don't like me.

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    I had an ESTp brother-in-law... at one time.

    When I was in buddy-buddy mode and he was in sane-person mode we were fine, but I found a little bit of him went a long way. The biggest conflict for us was the fact that he had a Fi-polr, and I have a very selective Fi. Plus, he had major mommy issues and was very insecure about what people thought of him. Not an explosive mix, but it meant that my normal flow didn't really allow for his issues, and he always interpreted it as me not 'respecting' him when respect had absolutely nothing to do with it..
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    I think my mother's (IEE) partner may be SLI (he's an ENFP in MBTT, and he could be an IEE, but I think SLI is probably more likely). We get on relatively well, but I feel like it's me doing the work to make sure our views don't clash. Not that he has any to clash with (lulz!!!1). Seriously, I find him to be a cool guy to chill with at meal times, and because he's a businessman and earns a lot, he can give me some tips to get into the biz, which is also cool. I really don't think we could ever develop the kind of relationship my father (IEI) and I have, but he's certainly far better for my mother than my father was, even if they did last twenty years.

    On the SLIs on this forum: I like you guys. Sometimes I think to myself, "oh, the joys of being able to live like they do, caring about the little things in life, and not interfering with worldly affairs", but my instincts get the better for me. It sounds like fucking Spiderman or something, but I really do think I've been cursed/blessed with the ability to get involved in the world and achieve status in life, and really give a shit about politics and power and all the rest of it, something Deltas are just completely opposed to. I sometimes do wish I could be a Delta. Nonetheless, there will be days when I think "Deltas are extremely boring and naive" or something like that. One day I'll think "I might actually move to the Deep South and just take up a life in mechanics or some shit", but the next I know I wouldn't fit there; I know people would feel completely estranged by me, and I know my instincts would drive me elsewhere. It's like the guy from Big Fish; he's driven by impulse and Gamma values; he couldn't possibly live in that little town for the rest of his life like those (probably Delta, maybe Alpha) people wanted him too. He was a big Gamma fish in a small Delta pond. This is what I feel like (except I'm Beta).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra View Post
    Sometimes I think to myself, "oh, the joys of being able to live like they do, caring about the little things in life, and not interfering with worldly affairs"...
    I like how you worded that. What you say (about our indifference/opposition) is very true, imo.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra View Post
    I think my mother's (IEE) partner may be SLI (he's an ENFP in MBTT, and he could be an IEE, but I think SLI is probably more likely). We get on relatively well, but I feel like it's me doing the work to make sure our views don't clash. Not that he has any to clash with (lulz!!!1). Seriously, I find him to be a cool guy to chill with at meal times, and because he's a businessman and earns a lot, he can give me some tips to get into the biz, which is also cool. I really don't think we could ever develop the kind of relationship my father (IEI) and I have, but he's certainly far better for my mother than my father was, even if they did last twenty years.

    On the SLIs on this forum: I like you guys. Sometimes I think to myself, "oh, the joys of being able to live like they do, caring about the little things in life, and not interfering with worldly affairs", but my instincts get the better for me. It sounds like fucking Spiderman or something, but I really do think I've been cursed/blessed with the ability to get involved in the world and achieve status in life, and really give a shit about politics and power and all the rest of it, something Deltas are just completely opposed to. I sometimes do wish I could be a Delta. Nonetheless, there will be days when I think "Deltas are extremely boring and naive" or something like that. One day I'll think "I might actually move to the Deep South and just take up a life in mechanics or some shit", but the next I know I wouldn't fit there; I know people would feel completely estranged by me, and I know my instincts would drive me elsewhere. It's like the guy from Big Fish; he's driven by impulse and Gamma values; he couldn't possibly live in that little town for the rest of his life like those (probably Delta, maybe Alpha) people wanted him too. He was a big Gamma fish in a small Delta pond. This is what I feel like (except I'm Beta).
    I really liked this post.


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    I've talked to IcEpiCk and he pisses me off with his constant bickering about me being an ENFj. He thinks I'm crazy, too energetic, and has too much killling intent. He thinks that I'm either an ENFj since I like conflict so much, or an ESTp since I'm so obsessed with power and raping unsuspecting/suspecting females, and has decided to leave the forum due to a 'loss of use for socionics' and the fact that most people mistype themselves, which I often agree with. But fuck. There are girls here, and there is stickam, and IEE's probably hate me which means I'm not delta. There's like starfall the leopard pussy babe, River Kitten Ruth, Allie the allie kitten, and Danielle the baddest kitten ever who deserves eternal punishment forever. How can you find socionics useless? He perturbs me with his incessant lack of response, and trivializes my ideas with his one word, 3 syllable response.

    I don't think ISTp's are that cool.

    I don't know what type I am.

    I think IEI's are the sexiest type ever.

    I think SEI's only know how to be cute (and fat).

    I think ENTj's like Ashton try to hard to be cool but fail badly.

    I think INTj's are ugly fucks who are bad at all forms of sport and competition.

    I hate gamma in general because Maria Fernandez ignored all of my text inputs at stickam, but I'll spare gamma just because of Danielle. She'll have to take all of the punishment.

    I hate delta because they think I'm a bad monster kind of person. And they think I'm crazy.

    I hate Alpha because they have foreplay all day and never get to the point (i.e. sex)

    I hate Beta because I feel the need to spread my hate evenly throughout the quadras.

    I hate all forms of established organizations that aren't run by me.

    I hate my project work group because half of them are pussies, the only guy is a wussy, and there's only one girl whom I could actually be interested in (the rest are doubters and failures at life).

    I hate school for teaching students that they are too stupid to learn things by themselves.

    I hate the government for thinking that by being dictatorial and competitive with the global political trends they will run this tiny little island successfully. Only half true, just that it produced a hell lot of emotionally retarded people like me who constantly vent anger at the government's non-committal (insin-fucking-cere) stand points.

    I generally hate perfume in general. If you're a chick reading this, please stop using perfume. It stinks of fakeness and lack of natural scent. Don't dye your hair but if you did I'd love you anyway, stop using fake nails unless you take them off first before sex, and never get a breast implant. I might be ISTp myself since I'm such a sexual pervert, but I don't suppose knitting and playing with kittens in a platonic way interests me. Yes it is true, every female pussy that was tamed under my hands expressed sexual interest within minutes. I of course, will not deign to have sex with a real, non-human kitten, and have successfully tamed those naughty skanks down to shivering, horny pussies with the same hands that drew them in in the first place.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBlueBlade View Post
    I've talked to IcEpiCk and he pisses me off with his constant bickering about me being an ENFj. He thinks I'm crazy, too energetic, and has too much killling intent. He thinks that I'm either an ENFj since I like conflict so much, or an ESTp since I'm so obsessed with power and raping unsuspecting/suspecting females, and has decided to leave the forum due to a 'loss of use for socionics' and the fact that most people mistype themselves, which I often agree with. But fuck. There are girls here, and there is stickam, and IEE's probably hate me which means I'm not delta. There's like starfall the leopard pussy babe, River Kitten Ruth, Allie the allie kitten, and Danielle the baddest kitten ever who deserves eternal punishment forever. How can you find socionics useless? He perturbs me with his incessant lack of response, and trivializes my ideas with his one word, 3 syllable response.

    I don't think ISTp's are that cool.

    I don't know what type I am.

    I think IEI's are the sexiest type ever.

    I think SEI's only know how to be cute (and fat).

    I think ENTj's like Ashton try to hard to be cool but fail badly.

    I think INTj's are ugly fucks who are bad at all forms of sport and competition.

    I hate gamma in general because Maria Fernandez ignored all of my text inputs at stickam, but I'll spare gamma just because of Danielle. She'll have to take all of the punishment.

    I hate delta because they think I'm a bad monster kind of person. And they think I'm crazy.

    I hate Alpha because they have foreplay all day and never get to the point (i.e. sex)

    I hate Beta because I feel the need to spread my hate evenly throughout the quadras.

    I hate all forms of established organizations that aren't run by me.

    I hate my project work group because half of them are pussies, the only guy is a wussy, and there's only one girl whom I could actually be interested in (the rest are doubters and failures at life).

    I hate school for teaching students that they are too stupid to learn things by themselves.

    I hate the government for thinking that by being dictatorial and competitive with the global political trends they will run this tiny little island successfully. Only half true, just that it produced a hell lot of emotionally retarded people like me who constantly vent anger at the government's non-committal (insin-fucking-cere) stand points.

    I generally hate perfume in general. If you're a chick reading this, please stop using perfume. It stinks of fakeness and lack of natural scent. Don't dye your hair but if you did I'd love you anyway, stop using fake nails unless you take them off first before sex, and never get a breast implant. I might be ISTp myself since I'm such a sexual pervert, but I don't suppose knitting and playing with kittens in a platonic way interests me. Yes it is true, every female pussy that was tamed under my hands expressed sexual interest within minutes. I of course, will not deign to have sex with a real, non-human kitten, and have successfully tamed those naughty skanks down to shivering, horny pussies with the same hands that drew them in in the first place.

    If you hate me, then I hate you too.

    If you think I'm rude, then please fuck off.

    If you're going to ignore me, then tell me first. I need your name and address. I also need the names and addresses of all your loved ones.

    If you're talking behind my back about the past atrocities that I have committed, then I will exact even greater punishment on you and those whom you love.

    Regardless, unless you love me, I hate you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBlueBlade View Post
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    Drugs are usually prescribed for people like you; it would be worth it to visit the doctor just to confirm what mental disorder you have.
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    Quote Originally Posted by force my hand View Post
    Drugs are usually prescribed for people like you; it would be worth it to visit the doctor just to confirm what mental disorder you have.
    I suggest Vyvanse.

    Or maybe a Colt .44
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBlueBlade View Post
    I've talked to IcEpiCk and he pisses me off with his constant bickering about me being an ENFj. He thinks I'm crazy, too energetic, and has too much killling intent. He thinks that I'm either an ENFj since I like conflict so much, or an ESTp since I'm so obsessed with power and raping unsuspecting/suspecting females, and has decided to leave the forum due to a 'loss of use for socionics' I don't know what type I am.me.

    If you at all contributed to an ISTP leaving the forum I think you deserve some kind of Beta award...I dont know how the rest of the quadrant memebers feel...Besides you would have done him a favor you don't want an ISTP to strain and burn out their brain cell too much with these kinds of abstract matters. now he can spend his free time wallowing in mud or burping or whatever he specializes in.
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    Quote Originally Posted by songofsappho View Post
    Wow - such harsh feelings for ISTp's from the Beta people. Interesting.
    Heads up: lefty is a little bit batty.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Reuben View Post
    I've talked to IcEpiCk and he pisses me off with his constant bickering about me being an ENFj. He thinks I'm crazy, too energetic, and has too much killling intent. He thinks that I'm either an ENFj since I like conflict so much, or an ESTp since I'm so obsessed with power and raping unsuspecting/suspecting females, and has decided to leave the forum due to a 'loss of use for socionics' and the fact that most people mistype themselves, which I often agree with. But fuck. There are girls here, and there is stickam, and IEE's probably hate me which means I'm not delta. There's like starfall the leopard pussy babe, River Kitten Ruth, Allie the allie kitten, and Danielle the baddest kitten ever who deserves eternal punishment forever. How can you find socionics useless? He perturbs me with his incessant lack of response, and trivializes my ideas with his one word, 3 syllable response.

    I don't think ISTp's are that cool.

    I don't know what type I am.

    I think IEI's are the sexiest type ever.

    I think SEI's only know how to be cute (and fat).

    I think ENTj's like Ashton try to hard to be cool but fail badly.

    I think INTj's are ugly fucks who are bad at all forms of sport and competition.

    I hate gamma in general because Maria Fernandez ignored all of my text inputs at stickam, but I'll spare gamma just because of Danielle. She'll have to take all of the punishment.

    I hate delta because they think I'm a bad monster kind of person. And they think I'm crazy.

    I hate Alpha because they have foreplay all day and never get to the point (i.e. sex)

    I hate Beta because I feel the need to spread my hate evenly throughout the quadras.

    I hate all forms of established organizations that aren't run by me.

    I hate my project work group because half of them are pussies, the only guy is a wussy, and there's only one girl whom I could actually be interested in (the rest are doubters and failures at life).

    I hate school for teaching students that they are too stupid to learn things by themselves.

    I hate the government for thinking that by being dictatorial and competitive with the global political trends they will run this tiny little island successfully. Only half true, just that it produced a hell lot of emotionally retarded people like me who constantly vent anger at the government's non-committal (insin-fucking-cere) stand points.

    I generally hate perfume in general. If you're a chick reading this, please stop using perfume. It stinks of fakeness and lack of natural scent. Don't dye your hair but if you did I'd love you anyway, stop using fake nails unless you take them off first before sex, and never get a breast implant. I might be ISTp myself since I'm such a sexual pervert, but I don't suppose knitting and playing with kittens in a platonic way interests me. Yes it is true, every female pussy that was tamed under my hands expressed sexual interest within minutes. I of course, will not deign to have sex with a real, non-human kitten, and have successfully tamed those naughty skanks down to shivering, horny pussies with the same hands that drew them in in the first place.

    If you hate me, then I hate you too.

    If you think I'm rude, then please fuck off.

    If you're going to ignore me, then tell me first. I need your name and address. I also need the names and addresses of all your loved ones.

    If you're talking behind my back about the past atrocities that I have committed, then I will exact even greater punishment on you and those whom you love.

    Regardless, unless you love me, I hate you.

    Peace and Hatred,

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