So from my understanding, when others criticize your PoLR it causes you the most pain (duh- hence its name) however, i think that this can use a little tweaking.
I may just be speaking for myself, but the more I learn about
the more I realize that I am actually against it (no offense and please no shit betas and alphas). I have noticed this from my dual as well with their
PoLR. We live our lives in defiance of our PoLRs.
When I am in contact with a
-leading type (a.k.a. my supervisor and/or conflictor) when they notice my weak
I don't really get insulted (this could maybe be attributed to my stubborness) but rather, I gain more confidence in my strong, valued leading and creative functions, once again underestimating the importance of my PoLR as we all do. This idea of your PoLR not being your PoLR when others "insult" it also works into how your dual's creative function helps you to grow into your PoLR, rather than if your dual were to have their creative function your PoLR- do you know what I mean?
Anyway, the only time when my PoLR is my PoLR is when I make a mistake and looking back on the mistake beat myself up over underestimating my PoLR's importance. So perhaps the concept of the PoLR should be renamed, or no? Thoughts? Ideas? Experiences?