Social/Self-pres (5)
One might think that the energy of this subtype would be warmer and friendlier than that of the self-pres/social, but it doesn’t usually present that way. Because the social instinct is dominant,
these Fives are much more aware of their role in the group. They are therefore more careful of their involvements with others. The social arena is more important and is invested with more energy, so these Fives will pull up faster and harder into self-pres mode if they should feel at all threatened.
This will sometimes give others the impression of coldness.
This subtype will center a lot of their intellectual interest around the workings of society, humanity or spirituality.
This serves as their connection with people. By means of these abstract mental constructs, Fives of this subtype feel a sense of belonging socially, without having to be personally involved and invested.
The healthier people of this subtype are, the more they are able to integrate their mental constructs with their actual experiences. They can really be content to adopt the role of “people watcher,” but they do it from a closer and closer perspective
. Their blind spot revolves around the fact that they tend to convince themselves they can get along just fine in the observer role. It does feel safer to them. [
It does feel safer. And yet... I have FULLY come to understand that I cannot, absolutely cannot, sit back and watch any longer. If I am to be involved in this world at all, I have to do more than just watch.] If they do have a few people relatively close to them, they can really strike a good balance between their need to withdraw and their need to connect to the larger social world.
This subtype could be seen as the most intellectual of type Five. The combination of the basic desire for knowing with the social instinct’s need to "fit in," makes people of this subtype want to find a niche as the expert.
Their interest in structure, especially social structure, accentuates their natural inclination for acquiring knowledge. With the sexual instinct least developed, this subtype is in the position of having a strong pull towards understanding the workings of the world around them*,
without the emotional intensity of the sexual instinct setting up any distraction [
I realize I have sexual passion and desire, and ask anyone who knows me well enough in that way for verification...and yet, when dealing with others, I strive for passionlesness, and not think about things "sexually": this is the only way I can have a true clarity and understanding.] These Fives fit the role of the scientist or professor quite well in this respect.