IEI - SLE Duality discussion and stories (INFp-ESTp)

[buckland]

LOL why not marry him this year?

And, im about 90% sure he's intj...in MBTI i'm pretty positive he's INTP...

Maybe you're attracted to him because he is socionics INTp.

[strrrng]

I'd be willing to bet he's really just an INFp with a high Ti focus.

[ESTP]

I'd be willing to bet he's really just an INFp with a high Ti focus.

You know...I think that's a possibility. Fuck my life.

edit: can you enlighten me a little about this scenario? I think he's too F sometimes to be INTp or INTj even........blah HELP

[Brilliand]

You know...I think that's a possibility. Fuck my life.

edit: can you enlighten me a little about this scenario? I think he's too F sometimes to be INTp or INTj even........blah HELP

If he's an INFp, and you're an ESTp, then what you have here is a dual relationship. "Fuck my life" does not apply.

[ArchonAlarion]

"F" does not exist

Strrrng's probably correct and that was went through my head as well.

[ESTP]

If he's an INFp, and you're an ESTp, then what you have here is a dual relationship. "Fuck my life" does not apply.

If that is ture...that'd be great. However, I have this inner turmoil about the situation.

Is it werid, that I feel like he has more control over me than anyone....without even trying?? He just lets me be me...but it seems like he has this power over me. Blah.

Fuck my life..yes, because I hate this situation. I dont know what to do with myself when I'm not with him...only when I'm with him, does everything seem A-OK.

[Socionics Is A Cult]

If the situation is moderately okay to good, definitely carry on with it! Don't rely on your socionics typing ability! Just remember that you know that people act differently and may not always act how you want them to.

[ESTP]

If the situation is moderately okay to good, definitely carry on with it! Don't rely on your socionics typing ability! Just remember that you know that people act differently and may not always act how you want them to.

The situation is good and then some. So I guess, I shall carry on with it.

Basically, he got outta relationship a few months ago + and about a month and a half ago said he didn't want to get into a relationship (we got super super close super fast) and basically since then...it's seemed like one. It has ALL the makings of one, without the title. I understand so therefore I don't presume or pressure him. But, the more time goes on, the more he behaves like a bf. Werid, but I totally heart him. Haven't told him, nor will I tell him for a long time to come. I just almost want to be like "WTF is going on" but I don't have the balls to, nor do I almost feel the need for it. Advice?

[Brilliand]

If that is ture...that'd be great. However, I have this inner turmoil about the situation.

Is it werid, that I feel like he has more control over me than anyone....without even trying?? He just lets me be me...but it seems like he has this power over me. Blah.

Fuck my life..yes, because I hate this situation. I dont know what to do with myself when I'm not with him...only when I'm with him, does everything seem A-OK.

That does remind me of things I've read about dual relationships... you connect with each others' subconsciouses, and you become dependent on each other.

http://www.socionika.com/experiencin...relations.html

Judging from that, any sort of romance that starts as "let's have a romance" is messed up... it should drive itself, as yours seems to be doing. Just don't stop it or wander away.

[buckland]

You know...I think that's a possibility. Fuck my life.

edit: can you enlighten me a little about this scenario? I think he's too F sometimes to be INTp or INTj even........blah HELP

Whatever type he ends up as, does it really matter in terms of your eventual interaction with him?

[ESTP]

Whatever type he ends up as, does it really matter in terms of your eventual interaction with him?

Hah, not really to be honest.

Its still interesting to dabble in this stuff.