IEI - SLE Duality discussion and stories (INFp-ESTp)

[snowbunnee]

I'm an INFP, he's an ESTP. Most of the time, we balance each other out...but since we're both 'p', neither one of us is a very good planner and neither one of us is extremely grounded...

Any INFP/ESTP relationships here? Any tips???

[Expat]

ESTp/INFp is a relationship of duality, which is what it sounds like, the best possible according to socionics.

The fact that you're both perceivers actually helps it work - - ESTj with INFp is actually a relationship of conflict.

So what is the problem?

[Creepy-]

I am in a relationship of duality: INFp/ESTp

What would you like to know?

On neither being a good planner - that is very true. However, for urgent things, spiritual crisis or other such unusual situations, one of us can usually be pretty sensible about the whole thing.

But I can guarantee that we will spend our entire married life poor

[Creepy-Supermann]

tell us everything, ishy!

[Creepy-]

tell us everything, ishy!

I will think of a response, in the meantime please post any specific questions you have so I can answer them regardless of how long it takes me to figure out what "everything" entails

[maze]

But I can guarantee that we will spend our entire married life poor

True. Wouldn't want it any other way. Picnics, bike rides, doggy beach, walks...not having money makes us resort to these fun inexpensive past times. I prefer being poor. Kids are out of the question. That just means MORE fun time together enjoying life's bliss. I swear, we are never going to grow up! Students for life. Just keep getting degrees and never getting a job. Our student loans are CRAZY.

[Creepy-]

Don't talk about money in front of the INFps!

*stupid INFp uncovered article*