IEI - SLE Duality discussion and stories (INFp-ESTp)

[pandagirl]

We're both 30! So, obviously we're not little kids anymore.

Interesting thing about him, he was married and divorced young. He says he just "knows" him, and that something is "missing," even though everything else is there.

I think he does want to settle down, he wants kids and everything. I think the main problem is he wants passion and that immediate feeling of being "in love." I was just wondering if this was typical of estps.

[Expat]

I think he does want to settle down, he wants kids and everything. I think the main problem is he wants passion and that immediate feeling of being "in love." I was just wondering if this was typical of estps.

I wrote that post before reading this, and it's consistent with what I wrote.

If the problem is related to his missing "passion", then it's an indication that it's about a Fe vs Fi disconnect.