Kim, I think logical types in contrary relationships suffer differently than ethical types in contrary relationships because one wants more Fe, the other wants more Fi, and as a result they both feel neglected.

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We didn't feel insecure about fidelity kinds of things, and we almost never fought, but both of us felt very neglected, and it literally took all of our energy just to keep the relationship together. It was like he was living his life and I was living mine, and we had to meet somewhere in the middle to spend time together, and any closeness we experienced was only in that meeting place.
This describes the relationship I have with my comparative.
I think it probably describes pretty much any relationship where partners are not truly available to each other.