What about a female SLE, the strong variety; she realizes that she is very powerful and considers that for her to be happy she needs an even more powerful man.
I talk to her by messenger and she is so far polarized that I start to recognize SLE messages very soon... I'm chuckling as she points out "not so feminine" characteristics that I know perfectly well where are coming from.
I give her a SLE profile.... she thinks it's weird because she recognizes pretty much everything... BUT when she reads the IEI profile her attitude is something like "No way I can get along with such a wimp". If she feels she conquered the man she looses interest... she needs to be conquered... she needs a strong man... etc... (her opinion)
How can this kind of situation be approached by an IEI male? I'm assuming she never experienced dualization... so no matter how much I try to explain about equilibrium, Yin-Yang mambo-jumbo, I feel she simply has no reference point... she keeps thinking that the solution is represented by someone more powerful.
Any ideas? Maybe there are SLEs around here that experienced dualization later in life... and realized the benefits it can bring...
Please feel free to share any insights...