What you're saying or noting, or whatever, directly goes against the idea of introversion and extraversion in socionics.

The idea of the difference is that introverts would encourage others to take the initiative, while an extravert will try to take the initiative himself.

Better examples: (Taken from Rick's Blog[bottom])

Introtims:
Introtims live with the sensation that there are always people who want to talk to them, get to know them, or do something with them. Their life philosophy is very often built around how to respond to these people.

Extratims:
Extratims live with the sensation that it is their job in life to put forth an effort to establish contact and interaction with people.Their life philosophy is very often built around how best to do this.

http://socionist.blogspot.com/2007/0...verts-and.html

Introverts forcing others to not take the initiative directly goes against the point of being an introvert (I think I'll call them introtims from now on.)