Originally Posted by
FDG
XoX, do you know anybody that has very similar movements and gestures to you?
Is there anybody that you have typed for sure as a given type? What are the worst relations that you have had, the ones that you feel bad even when the person is just near you?
Well there are not many I relate to. However in some interviews Christian Bale
has similar discussion style and body language as I have (using a lot of hand gestures and searching for words (I do that often). I also think he has many features similar to me. His face shape for example. I also could see myself acting some of his roles e.g. the one he does in Batman Begins.
In this video he is very much like me. Almost like a copy. Even my wife immediately noticed the similarities in body language and discussion style and everything. Of course I have a bit of variation e.g. in my energy levels and whether I listen more or talk more but this person in the video is very very much like me:
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Bzxc2Grx7w[/youtube]
So if I had to pick a celebrity who is most likely my identical it would be him (based on what little I have seen him of course, couple of movies and couple of interviews).
About my worst relations...a tough one...I rarely if ever have really bad relations. I almost always have some problems in every relation but never really I dislike someone to the point of calling a relations bad.
One of the worst relations had been with an ex-Boss who I often refer to. I think that person is ENTp. My only known ENTp. But could be ENTj. I stick with the ENTp since he was more like the ENTps who have been VI'd here and I believe he was strong in Ne and Ti but not so strong in Te. It was all about developing abstract concepts for him and the actual solution development was left to other people (like me). Also concept development seemed like the only real skill there is to him. So it was like "here is a concept, use it to develop an innovative solution for me, but remember that I don't really appreciate your contribution because doing new concepts is the thing I appreciate, so basically I only appreciate myself". Then I was like...yes..I'm really motivated now, lol. But ok I guess we appreciated each other's strenghts enough to keep working together.
It was a long time ago and I have typed him afterwards based on memories. Even though we managed to work together for quite a long time it got worse and worse all the time. These was some weird curtain of misunderstanding which kept on bothering us. And certainly somekind of war of values. Then both of us thought to have better understanding of certain things and it was a bit hard to respect the other person's point of view. It always seemed a bit faulty. We also appreciated somewhat different skill sets in people. We had to share something though as we cooperated so long. There was an ESTj too in the same team who had good relations with both of us and had some trouble understanding how he doesn't have any communication problems with either of us but we had communication problems with each other.
What else...male INTjs can bug me. But I also like them. Female INTjs are more peaceful somehow. I have one male INTj friend and he can piss me off badly because he is so stubborn in his opinions and refuses often to listen to counter arguments on things he has "already thought about and reached a conclusion". Then again we have had some good moments there too which is why we keep contact. And the INTj guy was a work mate too and a rather good one. I really respected his abilities and learned from him and the communication with him was way better than with the ENTp despite the fact that I always had to get pass his first line of defense to get him to actually listen (he also had problems with the ENTp but not quite as much as I did and a bit different, in their case it wasn't really about communication problems but some other problems).
What else...I can't figure out anything else, lol. The thing is I'm not in contact with too many people generally so I don't really recall anyone who really pisses me off. I would have to ask other people whether I piss them off. I'm quite immune to annoying behavior myself. And I'm pissed of now I probably won't be tomorrow. I kind of forget that I was pissed off. Umm.