I think that, at least subconsciously, the ILI one fits me. When I'm in a social situation involving strangers (e.g. at a bar) I usually feel safer if I'm with someone with strong Se, especially if there's trouble about. Otherwise I become apprehensive and start to get angry as a defence mechanism (such that, if I were attacked or whatever, I'd already be on guard...if you see what I mean). Saying that though, if I've been in a social situation with an INFp, and there's nobody else with us, I tend to take on the protector role, although I don't feel safe doing it. I take the role more out of a desire to keep my friend safe, rather than wanting to exercise my Se. I'd still be more likely to run away than fight, given the chance.