Erotic Attitudes: the line between "Aggressor" and "Victim"

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I think it is good for extremes. Like extreme Se with extreme Ni will look very aggressor victim, and same with extreme Ne and extreme Si. But when it's blurred, the things aren't so distinguishable.

I agree with this, and with what Joy said, too. Subtypes can blur the Gulenko groups considerably.

cause that's what we're talkin about, needs to be better defined. personally the victim agressor dichotomy is easier to understand because the media plays it out again and again. the careful infantile one is not well defined at all. and we don't usually see it in the media, at least not that i can think of.

I agree, the "typical male courtship behavior" in the media seems to be Aggressive - at least how men are "supposed" to be.

Examples of Caregiver-Infantile in the media:

Perhaps --

the Mary Jane - Peter Parker interaction in the Spider-Man movies
Dharma and Greg
Jeannie and Tony in I dream of Jeannie
Mary and Dick in 3rd Rock from the Sun