more beta threads were requested, so i'll help out with that lol.

Alpha ILE here. tell me betans, why am i attracted to you? every guy i've ever been with has been a beta, cept for one esfj, and that did not last long.

i've never dated an istj, but have tons of female friends who are istj.

could it be that i am not an ILE? or is there just somethin about y'all?