we think is an enfp. she is very oppositional. always has to have her way. now that her dad is gone, when she is home with me, it is me, entp, her sister, esfj, and her enfp. so the relations for her are comparative and beneficiary.
ok so she gets upset today and me and my esfj daughter are exasperated. all of a sudden it dawns on me: she needs a dose of Si and Te. so i figure my esfj daughter is going to think of a better si thing to do, so i say to her, you do si, i'll do te. she says what's that, i say si is when you try to make people more comfortable and relaxed. so she goes and gets the 4 year old a stuffed animal. then i tell the 4 year old some facts about her situation. (Te not really a strength for me, but I can at least figure it out)
she calmed right down. amazing!