Quote Originally Posted by Slacker Mom
I don't understand what any of you are saying at all. My husband and I talk to each other all the time. He talks more if I'm around than not. In fact, I lead him into conversations with people around us. He says he likes to have me around when we're places because he doesn't seem to get into conversations if I'm not there. But if I'm there he participates more. Maybe it's different for one dual pair than another, I don't know.

Now if I leave the room and my husband is alone with, say, my ENFj dad or something like that, he shuts down completely and doesn't utter a word until I get back. And then later my dad will ask me why my husband doesn't like him.
Why does your ENFJ dad think that about your husband? Or why would an ENFJ get that impression in a situation similar to the above?