ahhh the first thing you said seems sort of Ti or something. like you want to make a grid about how things are expressed across cultures.
the LII that i know likes very emotionally expressive cultures such as italy and latin american countries and spain. he's 42 years old and not married...can't seem to get a relationship to last more than 6 months. i think he's Fe dual seeking to the max, along with having a mid life re-evalutation.