Somehow he sounds like an ESTj to me. But that's just an impression.I get the impression that ISTps don't usually say much, right?
This guy was pretty talkative though (aren't ISTps quiet?), but our conversation wasn't awkward.
So within maybe 30 minutes he was like "so I don't get why you're single. why are you single?"
And then he started asking how many dates I go on and if I have any coming up. He asked that several times. The end of the night he said he liked me and asked if I liked him. It seems like he asked that a few times. Isn't that impossible for ISTps?
Then he suggested we take the next day off of work to hang out (huh?) so I didn't say anything and he suggested we get together the next day. I mean, it went well. But it seems usually people are not that forward on a 1st date.
He calls the next day and asks how my day is going (but I sorta wondered if he was like, checking up on me). I mean, this is after 1 date.
Then he texted me at 1am that night to say hi basically -- that sorta confused me. He knows I keep odd hours, but still. So I didn't reply to that.
He got ISTp on the test (very high on S), but it seems like he isn't being anti-social enough and that has me way confused. For instance when I text him, he'll call me. Usually guys only text. Wouldn't an ISTp prefer text?
He did seem ISTp in that there was definite Si, for example he sorta massaged my shoulder a few times and seemed concerned I was cold (even though I wasn't that cold), and also took action when I suggested a place (we were like suddenly going there before I even noticed what was going on).
So, is he not an ISTp? An ISTp who is just trying harder to be outgoing? Are these red flags that he could be potentially controlling? Am I over-analyzing?
Thanks!