FDG, without seeming too obstrusive, would you say you have feelings for this girl? i mean do you really like her. if so i can understand why you're agreeing with raisonpure. but personally, i still think you should listen to your own instincts in this matter. or at least a friend irl who might have a better grip on the situation. because love and theory don't mix.

and meatburger's right: if you do have feelings for her you shouldn't repress them. love doesn't listen to reason and vice versa. even at the cost of a "crash and burn" scenario.

anyway, i think that another good opportunity is bound to come up. and if you've been girly enough :wink: to post a thread about it, your heart won't hesitate the next time.