Yawn. Do you really think this hits a nerve? I'm just choosing the right option. I've done the straight-full-on-attack multiple times when the situation calls for it. If that was the case - I would proceed with the attack. I've even scared girls off with straightforwardness. But of course if I'm asking advice is because I know this time the situation is different.Originally Posted by pezzonovante
How do you explain that I have blowed away a large number of opportunities by being too straightforward? If a tactic doesn't work, let's change it, don't you think? Going there and saying "Hey, wanna come at my place tonight" after some initial wooing works some time, but usually when you don't know the girl well. A sudden change in attitude is generally not well-received.