Quote Originally Posted by Blaze
OR "he's just not that into you"?

Or not.

intj intscmay.

what's with youse guys? how come you can't just say what's on your mind? estj has to be one of the easiest types of people to connect with . . .
Well, that's the eternal question...I haven't a clue, though I've spent plenty of time arguing with myself about it. Seems like the rational thing to do... be frank and forget all the stupid games, but I guess I'm never sure enough of my own feelings* to put myself out there.

*Okay, at the risk of sounding completely cold, also, I'm never sure enough of the other person's "worthiness". Why I can't save such decisions for later on, I'm not sure. But sometimes I fall for someone I don't entirely "approve" of, and then I'm stuck with that civil war inside my head also.

(BTW, Blaze, did you mean ESFj instead of ESTj?)