Many ESEs have trouble tempering their invasive spirits that seem to have a need to control the agendas of relationships; though many come across like primary school teachers, they'll often say that they never want control. LIIs resist any hint of a loss of independence or autonomy by distancing themselves and or becoming icy; yet, many will wonder why others perceive them as unfriendly or an elitist. If these two aspects are not curbed before the attempted start of a relationship, there's little potential for it getting off the ground or surviving any length of time.

a.k.a. I/O