Quote Originally Posted by Rocky
To confirm to love, hurt others and see they suffer to feel how I love him/her
*shrugs* That sounds like me in an unflatering way.
Can you elaborate on this. Like, how would you hurt someone? What do you look for to see if they are hurt? What if they didn't seem to be hurt but just went about their business?
I ask because my istp friend can be very nice and then suddenly be very cold and distant (which really hurts). I most often pretend like I dont care and just go hang out with other people. Then he comes around and starts acting friendly and warm again. Its crazy. I never know if I can count on him. He's too moody. Is that common behavior for istps?
We went through a period where we hung out alot and I confided in him. Now he's more stand-offish and I dont know how to correct matters.

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