I'm going to go ahead and bump this, another topic isn't necessary.
So as much as I swore off dating for awhile, I met this guy the other day who I'm quite interested in. That vow didn't last long! haha. I'm starting to feel the dreaded baggage of my last relationship creeping in. I keep putting myself down and thinking it's just a matter of time before he treats me the way my ex did. I know I can't let that prevent future relationships, but it's hard.
I wouldn't call this guy my typical type but he's almost exactly what I need now...he's very positive and motivating and is set on getting me out of this slump i'm in. So far it's been very casual. He dates a lot and has plenty of other females on the scene so I'm not sure what he want's from me, but I'd like to give this a shot. At the very least, it's one new friend I've made. I'm just wondering how one puts aside all that baggage from previous relationships and starts trusting again? A part of me thinks it's not worth it but I also don't want to let past issues prevent me from moving on.
I'm trying to work on being more "open" with people and to "reach out" more but I need help in this area. Frankly, i'm clueless. I'm going to ask some really stupid questions here, so be warned. How often are you supposed to call the guy? Do you call just to say hi? How much is too much at the beginning of a relationship? What the h**l do you talk about?
He told ME to call him sometime. There lies the problem. I'm already assuming that's translation for "i don't like you". Am I wrong? As I said previously, if someone really wants to hang out with you, wouldn't they call you first? Must I really be the one to initiate contact? Tell me it isn't so.