ppl from there seem to maybe memorize things someone else tells them about how ppl emotions relationships work and project it on others instead of understanding what is actually happening. like theres no genuine human personal understanding but things u read on the internet or a bunch of ppl told u that u think u understand. This is like memefying the ppl u interact with and it reminded me of schoolshooters in that they often seemed to have meme reasons for doing what they did and not get t othe actual problem. imagine getting memed on everytime u have something vulnerable to go through and ppl just twisting you around it. True mayeb every country does that but there's more of a sense of isolation and separation in america idk if bc ppl are workaholics and ahve to drive everywhere to scoialize thus rely more on social media/online which means eveyrthing is filtered by online platforms and corporate structures irl. like "dont be a victim" is such a low EQ mentality yet ppl resonate with it bc they live lives that are disconnected from reality. u can only not be a vicitm in an environment that allows you to be or u become insane. theres several avenues to proessing ur issues > art, writing, as means of self expression so u can reflect on what u oserve and process stuff, which is gay and unproductive, then theres repressing it and getting sicka nd depressed bc u need to werk, and then if u dont die it becomes u getting upset at this and that random things and trying to control others and oppress them bc ur life is miserable and u are ashamed of ursel,f and u want to put everyone else down like you have been, while also projecitng that everyone is as equally badly intentioned and unaware (dog eat dog world). bc of that theres an inclination towards betrayal while faking emotional competence, care and understanding and when soeone misbehaves or is perceives as such they are immediately memed on, ewed at, called a sociopath, a predator or whatver and whatever else.
example is destiny vs peterson debate. peterson just assumed destiny was disagreeable bc he debates a lot - destiny a guy who made his hair blue bc hes a crazy liberal (promised he would to donate to children with cancer foundation), and bc of arguing the idea that there's too many ppl and implying that he wants to kill them. no in nature when there's too many ppl just have less children to not destroy the ecosystem, and peterson is arguign from a standpoint that the ppl in control of everything are evil. which is true BUT HE NEVER EXPLAINED "WHY". i got so mad at ppl for claiming the ppl in control are evil without ever explainning why and assuming u are evil for not knowing or not even suspecting it. i think a lot of ppl are super messed up cuz they let those ppl be in control in the first place then complain about it like u cant have both. why did you do it and you kept doing it until it became ur problem? literal childish behavior, assuming theory of midn and that ur not just manipulating cuz u only care abotu whats convenient for u, and not jsut bc ur blidn but bc ur just that selfish.