When it’s someone I’m close with conflict is fine. But when it’s a group i’m in charge of, I hate conflict. It makes me feel uncomfortable, I feel the need to diffuse it, and it feels like my group is falling apart.
With friends and family conflict is fine. I can even feel energised by arguments as they give me an adrenaline rush. I’m not one to detach.
But I hate it when it’s a group I’m leading. It feels like all eyes are on me when there’s conflict even if the conflict isn’t to do with me. I’m always the one to say “everyone just make up and get over it”