Not trying to be flippant but it seems like most of the Sx-firsts that I’ve met with especially have been either super hot physically and probably been consistently validated and encouraged to express their creativity and sensuality throughout their lives or alternatively been through something traumatic early in their lives that shaped them into who they are. They rarely have a bland backstory and conventionally attractive women are also some of the most “intense”, relationship focused, and quick to become infatuated with someone (or toss them aside) in my limited experience