Quote Originally Posted by mikemex View Post
That's not true. I've found that both SLI and ILI are among the most caring of all types. It's no coincidence that Fi is their hidden agenda: there is nothing they yearn more, than to meet someone they can trust to fall in love with.

They are just somewhat out of sync with their own emotions and doesn't really "feel" anything until it's too obvious. It takes a lot of maturity for them to properly recognize (let alone accept) their feelings. Remember that love makes just about anyone vulnerable and it takes quite a leap of faith for an introverted and logical type to just give in and take the "risk".

IEEs... can be emotional whores. They like to go around and please people and gain their hearts, but only at a superficial level. Commitment is something IEEs struggle with. And this is an endless frustration source for their duals.
Hum some ESTJ can be exactly like ENFP as you describe here.

This is probably why SLI and EII come together so effortlessly because we both want and look for that profound connection and love