Originally Posted by
Braingel
This summer, I hadn’t been able to really counter the arguments of EIE and ILI against me; I was under health concerns and couldn’t get around to internalize it.. After grasping how Model G works overtime, I can say that 100%, I’m also an IEI in Model G. If people had still type me a negativist, it would have be an IEE, rather than EIE or ILI. (I hated every minute of it, but I was only focused on studying marijuana and CBD to quell my physical pain. And studying in that technical way I hated, and I had go in bursts). Even for this model G understanding, I didn’t read directly. I looked at a few things, and filled in the rest on my own.
There are two big issues for me as EIE or ILI; I’ve no Fi+ or Si-… I am result, rather than process… For EIE, there is the issue with me being of rationality.
I feel that people were typing me Fe minus out of seeing my disintegration to the 2. An unhealthy 4 will put their own self out there more, and require external validation (being valued by others) as how will, a 2. Enneagram disintegration is about harnessing negative aspects of the type you have sunken lower into.. And drown within it..
2 is intrinsically Fe-like, which is why so many ESE and EIE are core 2… This is because of how 2 pushes out its emotion. I’m a social lead, and so when I disintegrate, it will manifest as very unhealthy usage of social 2 (and social 1, as you can go both ways, but the 2 aspect is more dominant for an unhealthy 4 and the 1 won’t show up as much and dominate the actual behavior)… With emphasis on the blind spot, which is why I was this summer informing others about various health things; my social, with my blind pull up on SP. I was dumping this to feel valued and more worthy, to quell shame that became unhinged from my health’s fall. When I had criticized that dentist, that was my unhealthy social 1 usage coming out, and also going on about an SP matter.
For Si minus, it is a huge issue, and especially as a PolR function.. Because I don’t dismiss internalizing positive sensation. I value internalizing pleasant sensory input. I am becoming an aromatherapist because of this (and also because I want uncover the hidden depths and meanings of what each essential oil has offer to mankind on an esoteric level, and wand relation to them. I had the most beautiful vision of Frankincense’s soul coming to me, with her in an orange, white and yellow robe, long flowing blonde hair, and her eyelashes showing of shut eye). I love submerging the comfort of warm bath, and get in trouble for wasting money just going in to feel the warmth.. I will soliloquize “mm”, at the eating of yummy food, and as it reaches into my gut and then permeates to brain, heart, and elsewhere.. I crave being caressed and comforted, and have intensive fantasies of this… And watch ASMR of medical procedures done on me (which more is suggestive Se than Si), and sometimes fictional character ones.
I’m not aversive to, or helpless on Si. Because I’m autistic and have cptsd, it can make it appear like I may have difficulty.
Me as an Fi plus is preposterous; I do not get over my grievances, and harbor them long. I to this day harbor them over Vex and North Star.. And the past abuses from my family.. With their calling me names and physical assaults on me, and ignoring my sexual trauma…
I abhor routines and thrive when I’m unstructured, which makes me an irrational type..
The only type that befits after IEI, is the IEE… But me as a valuer of Te, this feels a stretch.
I am insanely idealistic with my future, and having an authenticated living for the collective (Ni-Fe+).. I am so idealistic and indulgent over this, it sweeps me off my feet and away from reaching to this ideal itself, because I live it inside.. And I frustrate over outer conflicting this inner fantasy within.
People this summer had not realized I was in the process of developing an autoimmunity that is both genetic and stressor origin. The Nod2gene runs in my family, and my SEE sister is very ill. I was very down to the 2, from this… And my negative expressed sentiments weren’t of the collective or hierarchical (Fe base), but rather of my own inner experience and pain.. Which is more Fi, because it’s an internal expression coming out because of my line to 2..
I was diagnosed with the illness this past November, when a youth shelter had me taken to a neurologist… And I now have see a rheumatologist this month’s end.
My behavior was from my neurotic pull up of my blinded SP (having focus on practicality and ignore social and sexual matters), and the disintegration… It was all enneagram-related…. Some people believe that the PolR function can flare under stress. I sort of saw this in myself, with how all I did was study CBD in a technical way… And I hated it. It felt very out of my element… I’d written on my own personal Facebook how this had strained my focus direction, and made a shell out of my energetic charge…
If others cannot see to me as IEI, I will only accept IEE as typing for me in the Model G sense.. As it is the only thing that fits me by dichotomy (result, irrational) and the +/- minus functions I’ve. There’s issue with me as a delta, and with me as ignoring Ni… But it is the only alternative there’s to IEI, and that if others want confine me to negativist, only negativist type that possibly can fit me.