ESI: “my kids don’t even have umbrellas since I can’t afford it”
Also ESI “I took my daughter out for her birthday party”
Also ESI “I have to have take out every breakfast “

ESI: “I can’t afford shoes for my daughter “
Also ESI: “I got a puppy! Vet costs are in now”

You’ve done many nice things for ESI and one time you won’t do something for them
ESI: with a tinge of harsh criticism “I recognize who you are now!” As in you just showed your true colors to me never mind I’ve been so nice to you