I was think about some woman I knew who was naturally skinny no matter how much she ate, like most people in her familly.
She has a son who is just like her, and after enduring years of being told by her doctor to gain weight and make her son gain weight, she snapped at him. She had told him in more calm ways before, but saddly some people only understand when you snap at them.
So yeah, she endured years of erroneous and even harmful judgements from a health profesional over her, and her son's natural physique.
They are a bit like @
Beautiful sky in the sense of not feeling so well eating high saturated fat food.
I guess at times, people can be "vicious" underhandedly by trying to help according to the wrong standards.