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    Quote Originally Posted by lavos View Post
    I'm not buying that you're ESI.
    >50% can mistake in own types. In types of other people - the similar.
    So can be or not to be.

    If for @Elmira is important that for other people was more clear what type she has, then may make a typing theme with 10 min video (free tale about herself, good seen face, without glasses).
    I'd watched with an interest.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sol View Post
    >50% can mistake in own types. In types of other people - the similar.
    So can be or not to be.

    Regarding Gamma selftypings, that percentage is more like 90%(in this forum-- dunno how it is the russian community, whether this a global phenomenon)
    If for @Elmira is important that for other people was more clear what type she has, then may make a typing theme with 10 min video (free tale about herself, good seen face, without glasses).
    I'd watched with an interest.
    Then, the angel asked her what her name was. She said: "I have none"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sol View Post
    >50% can mistake in own types. In types of other people - the similar.
    So can be or not to be.

    If for @Elmira is important that for other people was more clear what type she has, then may make a typing theme with 10 min video (free tale about herself, good seen face, without glasses).
    I'd watched with an interest.
    She’s ESI
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    Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?


    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    Quote Originally Posted by Beautiful sky View Post
    She’s ESI
    How do you know. She hasn't provided any evidence besides these apparent comparisons, and the other thread where she criticized each of the types. Neither prove she is ESI.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lavos View Post
    How do you know. She hasn't provided any evidence besides these apparent comparisons, and the other thread where she criticized each of the types. Neither prove she is ESI.
    Just read what she writes about herself
    Not what you think an ESI should be
    She is ESI
    And she doesn’t have to prove anything to you
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
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    Quote Originally Posted by Beautiful sky View Post
    Just read what she writes about herself
    Not what you think an ESI should be
    She is ESI
    And she doesn’t have to prove anything to you
    She doesn't have to, but I won't believe she is unless she does. If she doesn't care, I don't either, so, so be it.
    Then, the angel asked her what her name was. She said: "I have none"

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    Quote Originally Posted by lavos View Post
    She doesn't have to, but I won't believe she is unless she does. If she doesn't care, I don't either, so, so be it.
    You can believe whatever you want and that’s not the point of this thread so if you don’t believe her ignore her instead of trashing her thread. Obviously she took great care in this write up
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
    http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html

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    Quote Originally Posted by Beautiful sky View Post
    You can believe whatever you want and that’s not the point of this thread so if you don’t believe her ignore her instead of trashing her thread. Obviously she took great care in this write up
    Will do. Just wanted to cast some doubt on her self-typing.

    Note to everyone: mistrust anybody who shows up with a gamma self-typing ! (Including me)

    No gamma should self-type, I do due to some defiant streak I have, but if you are a gamma, you shouldn't !
    Then, the angel asked her what her name was. She said: "I have none"

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