Originally Posted by
lavos
"Depressing" is being unhealthy. Having hang-ups, being ineffective at life, not being able to self-develop. Any person with any stacking can be unhealthy and ineffective at living their life, in their own manner. One has to accept what one is, and live accordingly. There are things that can be "tuned" or changed, but it's not good to try to be something you're not or you don't "have inside" you. Thinking about trans people now, but trans people in most cases are trying to be what they truly feel inside (except those that regret the change).