@crazymaisy are you supposed to hide at all? people aer annoying nad will ruin u if u dont hide. this means he is taking advantage of your vulnerability/need to hide to "protect" u or "let" u be "invisible" to neglect you. like he is a martyr for letting u be alone so it means he can neglect you. "no one can be perfect" but treating u like a normal human being is far from "perfection"