xLEs and Fe
So we've established I'm an SLE-NC, with the Creative dual subtype thing intriguing me the most about my typing.
Anyways, so the Creative subtype has accentuated Fe and Ne with Se (EI + F) according to G. Personally, I think I use Fe a lot. Maybe it's because I'm aggressively social when I want to be and have been described multiple times as 'expressive'. Unless I'm around others, I'm not really that emotional but since I usually am, maybe that's why I notice so much Fe. I think me being a woman influences this a lot too - I've been told to fix my tone and face so may times. Even though I'm always calm, whenever I feel passionate about anything, I've always got the body language and facial expressions there. That's why I did debate EIE for myself and still have some questions.
I definitely relate to the second paragraph. I think I get that with my martial arts group. The group is so big and there are few things that are off limits with our humour and conversation topics. You get the joy of the sports, the parties and the other social events without too much emphasis on me as an individual. I don't like moral judgement on my statements and I rarely make moral arguments that don't involve detached logic. I like to show up, crack a few jokes, have a debate or two, pour a few drinks and then dip.SLE: 'SLEs tend to highly value vibrant emotional environments in which they can freely interact and be themselves, without incurring moral judgment or inflaming their natural emotional guard. They, however, are usually minimally proficient at providing an emotional impetus to relieve atmospheres which they perceive as overly dull. SLEs who try to exert their influence on the emotional atmosphere may not get the desired emotional response and may feel offended or as though they have little control over the situation. In unfamiliar situations, they may feel the need to maintain their emotional guard and can appear unfriendly, brusque, unwelcoming, or insensitive. This can detrimentally lead to further group antagonism and estrange the SLE from others.
SLEs are most comfortable in dynamic environments in which they are able to let loose and not worry about guarding themselves emotionally. They interact most freely with people skilled at creating these open-ended types of emotional environments, who have little interest in moral judgments external to the general mood or expression, and who react tactfully and non-critically. They also especially are inclined towards large group environments with a common shared goal, which they can use as a basis for amicable interaction. Environments of this sort can bring out the inner expression and purpose of SLEs, and can serve as an emotional release.'
This sounds like me too. I throw (or used to pre-COVID) parties, provide a few drinks and music and let the guests do the rest. On my own, I don't see why I would be emotional? Unless for whatever reason, I'm really distressed over something or have a lasting buzz from being out somewhere. Do people normally sit around feeling emotional?ILE: 'Enjoy lively, animated and fun interaction with people, but tend to be unemotional when left on their own. However, he is not inclined to create this atmosphere himself but can create situations where there is a good chance that others will take the emotional initiative and create a fun and emotionally stimulating atmosphere. Failure at such attempts are met with dismay, which the individual either hides or reacts to with frustration and annoyance.'
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