i hate this devaluation of women, which this is at least the second thread u've done about now. so far i have failed to discern women being worse than men or the way around in general. everyone can be a cunt. women are distant affection wise because... men are distant affection wise, and the other way around. they have some pretty good reasons and im getting a nasty vibe off of you.
targeting women as something more specific yet general to devalue signifies what? ESI broke up with his GF, started watching videos about how lame modern women are and lost cultural values.
you are still valuable and you dont need to devalue someone else for it.
ppl feel entitled to their truth, react as if ther reaction is already justified instead of trying to understand first. for women, they have presumptions about what men should be, that are not founded on compassion and understanding but on entitlement and personal gratification. This could be having no right to emotional expression, being tired, overwhelmed, no right to rest, no right to want to be understood or to give & receive too much affection, while simulatenously having no right to be too detached and cold (ppl need to be left alone sometimes and maybe crave affection in others and this wont always match with ur partner, u also have rhythms). "no right" meaning more of the sense other things having priority like work and chores, which also goes on both sides, and for some reason both insist they have it harder than the other and the other isnt trying hard enough. if u really cared about someone u'd voice ur concerns, but u wouldnt push them to harm themselves to serve you. relationships seem like mutual parasytism instead of love and understanding most of the time. is that due to stupid Sp firsts?
people legitimately do not love anyone. they base valuing someone on how good they are for their gratifiaction and survival. this is external. shit wont always go ur way, and when it doesnt u ned to blame ur partner for being too weak to handle it. this is what every institution, law and society is founded upon. narcissists. whoever isnt so focused on their own survival and gratification gets abused and selected out by those who are.